Seeing Beyond Ourselves

Last Updated on Wednesday, 20 January 2010 19:48

Caregiving can be complicated.

The entire family should be addressing caregiving issue

If elderly parents are capable, by all means, involve them in an open discussion of issues directly related to their future.they seem reluctant at first, persist. It's far better to "air" their fears and yours now, while they are still capable.

Be sure to involve all siblings in the discussion even the "long distance" children.

Who will be the principal caregiver?

What involvement will siblings have?

Which responsibilities can be shared? By whom?
(Supervising medications, shopping, doctors, day care, etc.)

Is communication open and honest between caregiver and elderly person?

Do family members share feelings and information? If they can't be there, keep them well informed, preferably in writing. Informal letters serve well. Finding answers and making decisions is not an easy task, see articles...(who to contact), We hope the resources provided will guide you through this process.